My father’s last words of profound wisdom

On this father’s day, I would like to commemorate my father by sharing his profound words wisdom with you, in hopes that you will take charge of your health so you can live long and up to your potential. I urge you to make a conscious effort to take good care of yourself while you are taking care of others. It is not selfish but self worth. You may just live longer and with quality of life.

Here is what my father said to me on his deathbed. “Lynn, I am a 58 years old man and I am going to die with the music in my box. All my wisdoms are going inside my casket, and I am going to die with my own worse enemy. If you understand my wisdom, I hope that some day when you die, I hope you will die with your own best friend. Here is how.

In your lifetime, you will be so hypnotized by the world just like me, either by your lover, by your children, by your job, a situation, or a behavior (eating too much, drinking too much, and for me it is shopping too much) or a thing. Watch out! Don’t let those things and those people hypnotize you to the point where you don’t even know your mind or your body anymore. Make sure you check in with yourself; how you feel according to what you ate, how you slept, or what has been happening in your life. Only you will know.

You will hear yourself reminding you that you need to do something, but you WILL get distracted. Just remember to give yourself ten times of distractions and really DO IT! You will be honoring your soul. If you hear yourself say, “I know really need to do it,” but you will make all kinds of excuses like, “I don’t have time, I don’t have the money, my job is too demanding or my kids need me”. If you say: “Tomorrow, tomorrow, but tomorrow does not come until today. So he said, “today is yesterday’s tomorrow.” He points to his head and said, “This works good” and pointed to his body, “but this doesn’t work anymore so perhaps another life time.”

Your body is a vehicle that hosts your soul and takes it to another dimension which tomorrow, the next day and the next day. Take good care of it so you will continue to your soul expression on earth. May these words of wisdom inspire you to take actions to follow a healthy lifestyle. Eat well. Move daily, hydrate often, sleep well, love your body and repeat this routine for life. You will be glad you did. Please share this story to anyone who you think will benefit from this blog. Thank you. Lynn



Side effects of taking good care of you


Are you sick and tired of feeling sick and tired? Perhaps you take a hand full of prescription drugs for your various conditions which give you a huge list of uncomfortable side effects from headache, dizziness, dry mouth, nausea, vomiting diarrhea decrease libido and the list goes on? Are you so fed up that you want to do something about it? If you haven’t thought about it, you may not be so uncomfortable to make a change. Or perhaps you are so wrapped up with your daily issues that making such interventions are too bothersome.

We are humans, the degree of feeling uncomfortable has to reach to the point of intolerable or shall I say “FED UP” to make a change or else we will not do it. The side effects of taking good care of your self are: You will feel good. You will look good. Your pants will fit better, you will feel comfortable in your own skin, and you will feel less frustrated. The less you are frustrated, the more you can better handle anything frustrating in the world. You are one less person who will take more medications and one less person who will render services to the emergency room. Hence, you will help the whole health care system because you are taking good care of yourself and will help decrease the health care deficit.

People will be intrigued ask you: I saw you then and I see you now, you look so different. You look healthier, happier, younger and thriving. They will wonder what you are doing. Let them guess. The first thing they would ask you is what kind of pills you are taking? What kind of diet and exercise regimen you are on? You must have a gastric bypass or you must have a new lover. They will be curious because they too want to jump on the ban wagon because they too want to get the same results as you. You can answer confidently that you have been paying better attention to yourself by taking better care of yourself, loving yourself, listening to your inner wisdom as to what you want and don’t want, just like when you were a little child. It is not selfish. It is self worth.

No one knows how you feel except for you. Children know themselves like no other. They are very in touch with their spirit. Try putting another spoon of food in their mouth when they don’t want it. They will spit it out. Why do we have to take it? Oh that’s right. We were condition to finish the plate or else we cannot get off the table. We were given the guilt trip that there are so many hungry people in Ethiopia or China. So we buy it. And this is woven into our subconscious. Or as a child what were you told if you fall down? How about some ice-cream to make that boo boo feel better? Leave your subconscious unchecked and you will perpetually do the same thing that you were told and not paying attention on how you feel.

I urge to start listening to your feelings as if this is the very first time you are starting to defrag your brain and start uploading new information. By listening to what you want and honor your mind and body, you will be able to live comfortably in your skin as long as you live. Of course, there is no guarantee that you will live longer. You could walk across the street and get killed. When you take care of yourself, you will feel better in your body for this body host your soul and takes it to another dimension i.e. tomorrow or the next day. Take good care of you and your benefits will come from your effort.